One of the biggest questions you can ask of yourself or others is “Who am I?” The question may be too much at first. You may not trust your own or others answers. What if you broke it down into one small part at a time? What if you focused on an almost universal value?
I had wanted to be a superhero as a child and then a pilot as a teen. Instead, I decided to get high to mask the confusion and pain. Then I broke from that and searched for someone to love and to return that love. Then I proceeded to leapfrog from one failure to another.